im 17 years old and was loving it until i had a abortion. my ex boyfriend and i wanted a child so we made one only to find out later on that he did not want nothing to do with me are the baby when i told him i was pregant. He started to ask me questions like are you sure its mine.Then he told me that he thought i should get a abortion because it was not his and that he did not have a job. So i made a mistake and got the abortion and now everyday i
I was 19 when I found out I was pregnant. The guy was much, much older. He was 25. We were in a pretty casual relationship anyways. He still doesn’t know and I keep wondering if I should tell him but I don’t know what that would do.
We didn’t use condoms and I wasn’t on birth control. He kept pulling out. There were two times I can remember where it felt..not right after sex. One time gave me a yeast infection which I should have known. The other time got me pregnant.
We broke up but he didn’t know.
I was 17 and he was 19. It was the first summer we had together. He was the bad boy and I was the girl next door. A lot of people were surprised when they found out I lost my virginity to him.
I took several pregnancy test in one day, and they all came out with the same conclusion. I not only had to tell my boyfriend I was pregnant, but I had to tell my Mom I was sexualy active AND pregnant!
My boyfriend didn’t want anything to do with me if I stayed pregnant. Me, being the
Hi, My name is Blair and i got pregnant when i was 13 years old. I first told me aunt i thought i might be and she ended up telling my parents. That was the hardest thing i have ever gone through. In Illinios your parents CANT make you have an abortion, it has to 100% the girls decision. In my case though, my parents told me that if i didnt give my baby up, they would give me up to either the state or send me to an orphanage. And because of this i felt like i had no
I was pregnant for almost four months before i actually worked up the courage and get a pregnancy test, they both came up positive i was so scared. I ended up telling my boyfriend of three years, he told me to have an abortion that was the end of it. I had an ultra sound and i saw my beautiful baby her tiny legs and hand, i couldnt stop smiling i think the doctor knew as well , because he said do u still want to go through with it?
I said yes. After i saw her in the ultra
I was 16, almost 17, when i found out i was pregnant. i was dating a guy who i thought was wonderful. Really he was nothing close to that. I hid it from my parents for almost a month. Me and the boy had decided to get an abortion but had to save up money before it could be done. I started getting doubts and wanted to keep it. He said he couldn’t allow it. When my parents found out it was all over. they didn’t even give me a choice. They handed me the money and told me to
I was 16 when I had an abortion. I still find it impossible to say that word aloud. In some ways it’s the biggest regret I have. At the time I had been with my boyfriend for four months. He was the only guy I had slept with. I never really thought that it would happen to me. But when I was late and then started being sick all the time I knew. I honestly have no idea how I survived the 10 weeks till I got the abortion. I had really bad morning sickness, all the time. I could
I got an abortion about four months ago and it hurts me so bad. At the time i thought it was the easy way out, I thought it was the right thing to do. In the abortion clinic i was crying and i knew i didnt want to do it but i thought it would make everyone else happy and i thought i needed to do it. Well after the abortion i started having nightmares and to this day it hurts me so bad. Why would i do something so selfish? I cant stand the fact that i did that.
I didn’t have just one abortion, I had two. Both times I fell into a trap with a man that didn’t love me, but loved my body. That is until there was a baby inside of it. I was 16 the first time, and my dad pushed me hard to get it. He offered to pay and told me that he refused to have another child in his house, even my own. After it was all said and done, I was crushed, and my own father made me work to pay him back all the cash, even though I didn’t
When I was 18 last year. I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend sounded so happy about it but then he changed. My mom didnt want me to have it either. So I had no where to go. So I made the wrong decision and had a medical abortion since I was so early. I feel so horrible I think about it everyday. I cry all the time and blame my boyfriend. If it happens again Im keeping it no matter what. It bothers me seeing my friends babies and baby cousins. I feel like I need
I am 19 years old, I found out I was pregnant in October. at first my fiance and I were excited but then he lost his job and even with help from the government we realized that we could barely take care of ourselves. How in the world were we going to take care of this baby? Being excited in the first few weeks of pregnancy, of course, we told the people we worked with and we even asked our closest friends to be the God parents of our child. When we decided to go through with the abortion we
3 weeks ago i had an abortion. I am 15, i got pregnant when i had sex for the very first time with my boyfriend. We have been going out for almost 5 month then, and we were both in love. We didn’t use a condom, but i was sure that it was not going to happen with me. 2 and half weeks past and i was waiting for my period. I usually have my period in every 3 weeks, so when it was the 4th week since my last, i was panicked. I told mom that i haven’t had
In the beginning of thie year when i was 15 in january, I became pregnant. I didn’t find out until i was five weeks though and that was in february. I sort of knew because my body changed me and my boyfriend were ready we were going through with it, but as time progressed I began to feel insecure, everyone was starting to notice and I was still afraid to say anything. I told my older sister she was so mad at me she wouldn’t talk to me for a week. When she finally did start back talking to me
when i was 14 i became pregnant to this boy who i “loved” so much. i found out that i was pregnant the third month that him and i were together. at first we were BOTH really happy about it, but once i started showing he started freaking out. he pressured me into an abortion. i was awake throughout the whole time it was going on. i started hemroging and almost died from the abortion. My baby’s lifeless pieces of remains laid in a bucket which i saw. later the guy left me and everyday i wish i could go
I found out I was pregnate a couple of days before moving into my college dorm room. I was at the doctor office to get my 6 month MRI when they had me take a pregnancy test. I come to find out that I was pregnate and did not know it. When I told my mom she was very disappointed and told me to call my boyfriend, who was my husband at the time, to tell him the new and to meet us at the house. When we go to the house I told my dad the news, both of
My name is Michelle and i am here to tell you my story. When i was 15 i got pregnant and i didn’t want to believe it so my boyfriend got me a pregnancy test. I took it and it came out positive we were so happy and we decided that we would keep it. Finally I told my parents and they banned hi from the house and told me i couldn’t keep it because i was too young. So we went and i got it done and it was scary because I was supposed to be asleep I was
I was the type of girl who said she would never get an abortion no matter what, that changed. My then boyfriend at the time and I had an amazing relationship we were together for almost two year. One day in september, I got real sick out of no where and I stayed with him for the rest of the day when I got out of class. He said ” you think you might be pregnant?” I said ” no of course not”, I wasn’t so sure. Next day he bought me a test and it was positive. I wasn’t
I had my abortion on october 24,2007 and my life has not been the same since then. The father of my child was basically a co worker who became a friend and from a friend to someone I became sexually involved with. We had only been sleeling around for a couple months when i became pregnant. I told him and his reaction was he was not ready for a child because he had to finish law school and he did not want to be in a relationship with me. I went through with the abortion and untill this day I
I’m 14 was dating a 19 year old for 6 months. He lived in Virginia while I was stuck in Minnesota. He came to visit me for one week and two weeks after he left I knew I was pregnant. I couldn’t tell him. He had too much stress so I kept it quiet. Quiet for 2 months. Until he decided things weren’t working out and that he couldn’t handle the relationship right now. So I called in, had a friend take me and had the abortion. The moment I got home I felt like a murderer. Right after I
i was 14 years old when i got my abortion. my dad told me to keep it and the rest of my family was saying i shouldnt. they were saying my boyfriend was a low life and that my baby wont go far. i wanted to keep it but with everyone on top of me, mostly my mom, i couldnt. they told me i wont have a life, or a father for my child and i didnt want that so i was forced into having the abortion. i cry when i see a baby, when someone brings it up,
my name is christina, im 17 years old and i had an abortion. when i first found out i was pregnant, i was only 15. i told my boyfriend, whom i been dating for a year already. he waz 17 at the time and he was soo excited. he wanted this baby and so did i because i knew if i aborted my life wont ever be the same. anyways, when its came around the time to tell my mother i was already 12weekz pregnant, and when we told her she was soo furious. she immediately kicked my boyfriend out
When I was in high school I had an abortion. I have regretted every moment of it. There was a human heartbeat inside me and I killed it.
Now, I am very happily married and can not have a child with my husband because of fertility issues.
Aside from regretting now that I missed my only chance at having a child of my own – I have to pray that other women don’t make the terrible mistake I made so that I can adopt a child – the only way I will ever have a child.
The heartbreak I felt
I was 16 when I discovered I was pregnant. my bf got me a test and I took it at home..and it came out positive. When I showed him the test, he comforted me and said it would be okay & begged me to keep it. He was really excited to be a dad, he called his mom and she was very supportive and called me everyday. I knew I needed to tell my family so I reached out to my aunt and she told my mom for me. When my mom found out, she went into a rage ,
I remember when i found out I was pregnant. I was only 16 years old. I was so scared of what people would think of me, and most of all what would all my friends say? I was more worried about my reputation rather then thinking about the baby. So i had an abortion. Its almost been three months since my abortion and from the day of my procedure till now theres not a second where i don’t think about my mistake. Its so hard living knowing that i killed my first child. I wish i can go back and
I WAS 15 AND I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT….I WAS SO SCARED. I WENT TO A CLINIC TO SEE IF I REALLY WAS PREGNANT AND YES I WAS …I WENT HOME CRYING AND TOLD MY MOM SHE COULDNT BELIEVE IT . THE FIRST THING SHE SAID WAS “ABORTION” I WAS SCARED I HAVE NEVER HEARD ABOUT ABORTION I NEVER KNEW WHAT IT WAS LIKE…FRIENDS WERE TELLING ME TO KEEP MY BABY ..MOM WAS TELLING ME ABORT IT…OTHER PEOPLE WERE TELLING ME ADOPTION WAS BEST.. I DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO ..I THOUGHT MY MOM WAS RIGHT ..SHE