girl who aborted forced into abortion

When I was a freshmen in high school, I got pregnant from a guy I had been with since 7th grade. I thought we were in love and we’re gonna spend the rest of our lives together. when he found out I was with child, he left me and told everyone I was a whore and it wasn’t his. my parents told me I was too young to be a mom much less a single one, and forced me to abort it. afterwards my EX boyfriend told everyone I killed his kid, as if he cared before, and to this day I haven’t lived it down. I still have nightmares about it. 

Teen who aborted calls it a horrible long term choice

I was 19 the day I found out I was pregnant my heart sunk into my stomach. I went to the clinic because I was having horrible headaches. In New York they give girls 16 and up a pregnancy test as its procedure. The nurse then told me I was pregnant. That night I later called my boyfriend and told him the news. He was supportive of whatever my choice was. Then a few days later he said we where just 19 and couldn’t afford a child now. So that night we agreed on abortion. But deep down I wanted to keep my child but I thought I loved my boyfriend more and didn’t want to lose him. After having the abortion I broke up with him because I couldn’t look at him the same. Abortion isn’t just something you take lightly. It’s a life changing choice You and only you can make. I wake up days thinking of my child knowing I’ll never be able to hold my baby in my arms. Abortion is a horrible long term life choice. 

teen who aborted still in pain 34 years later

It was 34 years ago.  I was newly 17, pregnant, and scared out of my mind. My parents were not there for me. If I had the baby I was thrown out of the house and they would have nothing to do with me or the baby.  I would be completely on my own without their help. I wasn’t wanted there and I had no place to go. They were more worried how family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, and also society was going to react when they found out their daughter was pregnant. I wish I would have known I had rights and there was help out there for pregnant teenage girls. Thank you for listening to me ramble on and on. It felt good to talk to someone who knows where I am coming from. 

cruel boyfriends use of abortion pill

Abortiopn Pills forced by BF

Look out for boyfriends who are pushing you to have an abortion. Abortion pills make it easy for them to slip into drinks or food to cause an abortion you might not want. There have already been numerous court cases and convictions of this happening.

Dr. Sikander Imran from Arlington, Virginia, placed four times the amount of abortion pills generally subscribed into the tea his girlfriend of three years was drinking because she refused to have an abortion. He was successful in killing her 17-week baby and ultimately pled guilty and was sentenced to three years in prison.

Likewise, Scott Bollig from Wakeeney, Kansas, crushed up abortion drugs and served it to his girlfriend in pancakes, killing her 10-week baby. Bollig is serving ten years in prison for his actions.

John Walden, the son of a prominent Florida doctor was able to get the abortion pills through the fertility clinic his father operated. After arranging for his girlfriend to have a prenatal exam at the clinic, he told her she had a bacterial infection and needed to take an antibiotic. He switched the labels on the drugs, giving her the abortion causing drugs instead. After experiencing excruciating pain, she went to the hospital and lost her baby. Walden later accepted a plea bargain, but the judge gave him the maximum sentence he could of 14 years in prison for his cowardly act.

Jeffrey Smith of Wisconsin Rapids, Wisconsin decided to take matters into his own hands when is girlfriend refused to abort their child. He slipped abortion pills into her water bottle in an attempt to kill her unborn child. Fortunately she noticed residue in the bottom of the bottle and did not drink from it. Instead she called the police. Smith has been charged with attempted first-degree intentional homicide of an unborn child. His trial is set for November 12.

internet abortion pills

Buying Abortion Pills Online

Be very, very aware of the dangers of buying abortion pills over the Internet. It is illegal in the U.S. to sell them over the Internet as they must be prescribed by s physician. In March, 2019, the U.S. Food & Drug Administration told Internet out-of-country abortion pill providers to cease their advertising in the U.S., stating, the drug carries a risk of serious or even life-threatening adverse effects, including serious and sometimes fatal infections and prolonged heavy bleeding…https://www.fda.gov/drugs/warning-letters-and-notice-violation-letters-pharmaceutical-companies/warning-letters-2019 Recognizing the potential for hemorrhaging, even these pill providers from India included a warning that it is absolutely necessary to live within an hour of a hospital in case you lose too much blood.

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Facebook discussions

Following a post about Holly Patterson, who died after taking the abortion pill, the following comments were posted on Facebook:

Patricia – My daughter took the same pill at the same clinic and it almost killed her.

Ashley – This happened to me, but I obviously didn’t die. I bled for 6 months straight. I paid $500 cash to bleed out for 6 months, only to find out there was still fetal tissue attached to my uterus that was causing active blood flow. I would suggest no one use the abortion pill. I ended up in surgery because of it.

Bonnie – Someone very close to me used it and ended up in the hospital for 3 months with blood clots and deep vein thrombosis. She was 16 when this happened. She survived. Stay away from this pill ladies. It’s not worth your life. Planned Parenthood gives out this pill with no explanation of the serious side effects that can happen. Their followups are nonexistent. These women think this drug is safe. It is not.

Katelynn – When I took the pill it was a nightmare experience, and I was in pain bleeding for 2 days. I had to go back to the clinic a week later to get an ultrasound specifically to make sure there was no fetus left inside of me.

teen was forced to abort, but unknown second twin survived

When I was fifteen I was pressured by my mother and stepfather to get an abortion. They drove me to the clinic and told me that if I came out of the clinic still pregnant, they’d disown me. The receptionist didn’t ask for my name first, all she asked for was whether I had the $450 in cash. Then she asked for my name. A half hour later I was called into a room by a nurse, and when I asked if it would hurt, she said I wouldn’t feel a thing. She lied. The doctor came in and told me to lay back and relax, that it’d be over with shortly. It seemed like forever. It was the most painful experience ever. After it was done, I remember looking at the table next to me and in a metal tray seeing a baby about the size of a quarter with no arms and half it’s body gone. My eight week old fetus was gone. I was never told about the emotional pain I would go through afterwards, nor was I told that I had a right to receive an ultrasound beforehand. A few months later, I was rushed to the hospital for what I thought was a complication from the abortion. There was no complication. I was in labor. Come to find out I was carrying twins, and only one was aborted. I was only 23 weeks pregnant according to the doctors, and I delivered my baby that night by emergency c-section. Fortunately, my daughter had no physical disabilities resulting from the abortion. She was as healthy as any 23 weeker would be. After five surgeries and 142 days in the NICU, I took my daughter home. I am so grateful that my baby girl survived. She is a true miracle and a blessing. Her name is Eva Rose. I can’t help but wonder what life would’ve been like if I hadn’t gotten the abortion. I learned later on that the premature birth was a result of the stress I was under both physically and emotionally stemming from the abortion. Eva Rose is now four years old and thriving. She has Retinopathy of Prematurity, so she wears glasses to correct that. I’m a firm believer that abortion is wrong. 

TEEN abortion pill dangers and deaths

The U.S. Food & Drug Administration report of 12/31/18 reported 24 deaths in the U.S. and 4,200 serious complications from abortion pills reported. It is unknown how many other complications and/or deaths go unreported. https://www.fda.gov/drugs/postmarket-drug-safety-information-patients-and-providers/questions-and-answers-mifeprex The causes of death included sepsis, hemorrhage, toxic shock, liver failure, and others.

Dangers of taking the abortion pill

Many teens want to keep a pregnancy a secret from their parents so the parents won’t know they are sexually active. If you believe this is just a pill to solve your problem and make your period start, it sounds like the perfect solution. However, you may have no idea what you are getting yourself into or how to recognize complications. This is why many states require parental consent or parental notification before an abortion on a minor.

A case in point is 18-year-old Holly Patterson from San Francisco, California. She did not want her parents to know that she was pregnant, so she never told them that she took the abortion pills. She followed the instructions given to her by the Planned Parenthood abortion clinic on September 10, but a couple days later she was in such pain and bleeding so badly that her boyfriend rushed her to the hospital where she was given pain pills and sent home. She was back in the ER a few days later and died September 17 of a massive infection from fragments of the fetus still inside her that caused her to go into septic shock.

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Truth about abortion pills

So what does it really do? Abortion pill abortions are allowed up to 10 weeks of pregnancy. The first pill is given at the abortion clinic to prevent further nutrients from reaching the baby/fetus. The other pills are given to you to take the next day to expel the now deceased baby/fetus. This may occur at home, at school, at work, or wherever. There will be heavy bleeding much like a miscarriage, nausea, vomiting, and intense pain, often while you are alone if you have kept your abortion a secret. When the fetus comes out, it will be up to you to dispose of it.

teens deceived about abortion pills

Teens are THE most susceptible to being deceived when it comes to the abortion pill. You have grown up in a society where you take a pill for everything. Just pop a pill and you will be fine. The pill is being described as restoring your period, and it is promoted as being as safe as Tylenol, Flonase, and Xanax. But is it?

Abortion pills are legal, but they are not as safe and easy as they are advertised. Remember, advertisements are to SELL a product and are often misleading. Abortion pills are a BIG business produced by pharmaceuticals to make money. Buyer beware. It is your body and your life. Protect it.

TEEN WHO CHOSE TO HAVE HER BABY SAYS SHE CHANGED HER LIFE FOR THE BETTER.

I got pregnant when i was 15 years old. I was with my boyfriend of a few months and i was completely shocked. I wasn’t in school, i had dropped out in 7th grade and didn’t do much of anything. My boyfriend was 17 years old and was going to high school. After awhile, he dropped out and then we realized i was pregnant. We were both nervous, but deep inside we were excited too. My mom was not supportive in the beginning but my grandmother was. After 20 weeks of being pregnant, i told my father and he was as happy as could be. After those next 20 weeks went by, I had my baby girl on December 13th. It was the best moment of my life. She changed my life for the better, i am in high school now & so isn’t her dad and i’m going to graduate and then start college. My daughter is truly a miracle. I’m so glad that i chose to have her, i don’t know where i’d be without her. Me & her father are still together, 2 years and going strong. 

TEEN WHO ABORTED REGRETS EVERY DAY OVER THREE YEARS LATER.

I was 14 years old when i found out when i was pregnant i wasn’t sure how many weeks i was probably 8 weeks or so. My mom found out on her own & when we were at the doctors she said abortion right away. Its like i had no other choice she called me slut & threatened to kick me out. My brother was happy & my boyfriend, my dad. Till this day i wish i could’ve kept my baby, everyday i regret everyday imagining my baby would’ve been 3 years old this month or next month! 

teen whose girlfriend aborted says a father is helpless when it comes to saving his baby

I was 17 years old and my girlfriend was worried she was pregnant so I thought id take her to get a test to calm her self down. We’ve had scares before but this time wasn’t a scare. When she began to cry reality crashed in quick and it seemed like my whole world was breaking down. I was afraid so I told her to get an abortion. A few days later the arrangements were made. One night a little bit over a week before the abortion I felt like I was doing the wrong thing. I knew I was letting my baby die. And from what I’ve been told I did what very few men do, I stood up and became the man I had to be and the father I should have been. I spent a week begging and pleading with her and her family. Countless arguments she watched me break down and cry in front of her begging her to not to kill my baby. That week I named my little baby. I named her Isabella Angel and she still is my little angel. I tried with everything, I offered everything that I could and even my family offered to cover all the money aspects of having the baby. Nonetheless Isabella Angel died March 13. I regret what happened every single day of my life. I wake up feeling not good enough as if my best couldn’t save my little girl. I don’t regret that my baby was alive, I regret that she died and the fact that her daddy couldn’t save her from the one person he loved the most. My girlfriend right after the abortion felt the regret set in. She began to realize that she had killed her own little girl and that no excuse that she could make up was good enough to make herself feel better. I am proud to be a father that tried to save his baby. Advice for those who are thinking about abortion. The thing that’s horrible with abortion isn’t just that your baby is killed, it’s that a father is helpless when it comes to saving his baby girl. Isabella Angel you will always be my little Angel even if she doesn’t love you. 

teen who aborted 5 years ago says she will never be the same

During my junior year of high school I had a one night stand with a friend. A month later i found out I was pregnant. I was scared, confused and mad at myself for not being careful. I had no idea what to do, but I knew I had to tell the father. So during school I sent him a text telling him I was pregnant. I didn’t hear anything back from him till later that night. All he wrote back was “abortion.” I was only 16 and I knew i couldn’t care for a baby. So I agreed. I regret my decision, and I wish I would have thought more about it. I was 8 weeks along when I killed my baby. For months after that I would wake up to the sounds of a baby crying, but there was no baby. I’m now 21, and I am still not the same. and I never will be. 

teen forced to abort at 22 weeks tells her baby “I’m sorry you had to endure that pain.”

I was 15 years old when I became pregnant I had been with the guy for only 7 months. I was in so much denial, that I kept it to myself, the baby’s father and lastly i told my sister, which is how my Mother found out. The first thing my mom said was we are going down town to the clinic monday morning. I had no say so about my baby. It hurt me so much and the father he was so against me getting an abortion. I was 22 weeks when I went down there I wish I could have waited a little longer and I would not have been able to get the abortion done. It hurts and kills me everyday to know I was forced to have my first-born killed. RIP BABY IM SORRY YOU HAD TO ENDURE THAT PAIN. YOU DID’NT ASK FOR THAT NOR DESERVE IT. 

girl who aborted says she now feels “empty and useless.”

I was sixteen when I had my abortion. At the time I found out i was actually pregnant my cousin who i lived with and my sister in law were pregnant too. When I thought about how happy i would be i also started to think that i was being selfish because it might make them feel like I only got pregnant because they were. So i made the appointment. my boyfriend was there and he begged me not to do it but he stuck by me anyways. I have nightmares and I cry when I look at myself because now I feel empty and useless. I want my baby. i keep her ultrasound with me everywhere i go. we even named her. I regret my choice everyday so think about yourself and the “baby” “YOU” are carrying and no one else. It’s all up to YOU. 

Teen who aborted says its not worth crying the rest of your life.

I was 15 when I found out I was pregnant, I was soon to turn 16. I hid it from my mom for almost 2 months, then I broke down and told her. I cried and she told me I could either have an abortion, or keep it and go into hiding then give it up for adoption. I couldn’t stand the thought of being away from my friends for almost a year and not being able to keep the kid so I said I’d do the abortion. That Monday I went to the clinic and had everything done. They took an untrasound and kept the picture of my almost fully 12 week old baby, but I told my self that this was for the best, that I was too young to have a child at 16. Its now 3 months later and all I can do every night is cry. I killed my baby girl or boy. I would be 5 months pregnant now. Yeah my life seems great after everything has been done, I have a new boyfriend who is great and my mom and me get along great, but I am so torn up inside. I regret it so much. Please don’t do it, it’s not worth crying the rest of your life. 

To my baby girl/boy: I’m so sorry, I really miss you. It was a stupid choice I made. I love you, I’m sorry I didn’t show that to you and I’ll never get the chance to. 

Teen who aborted was forced by her mother at 6 months of pregnancy

I was in my 10th grade year in high school and the guy i was dating had been my boyfriend for a year and a half. We had made a mutual decision to take our relationship to the next level…I was so consumed by school and sports that i hadnt noticed that i’d gone 3 months without a menstrual. I called my boyfriend and told him right a way. He was with my on what ever decision i made, so i said i was keeping it…Remind u i was only 15, i waited a while before saying anything to my Mother so by the time my sister told her i was 6 months…my mother would not let me keep it even after i begged and pleaded…She forced me to get an abortion it was a two day process based off how far along i was. It was thee most horrific experience of my life…oh how i yearn to be a mother…having your own child moving and kicking on the inside of you is a very special feeling but to have your child ripped out of u and ur told to jus forget it all ever happened is just a terrifying thing for a 15 year old to go through. 

Teen who aborted calls it a “horrible long-term life choice.”

I was 19 the day I found out I was pregnant my heart sunk into my stomach. I went to the clinic because I was having horrible headaches. In New York they give girls 16 and up a pregnancy test as its procedure. The nurse then told me I was pregnant. That night I later called my boyfriend and told him the news. He was supportive of whatever my choice was. Then a few days later he said we where just 19 and couldn’t afford a child now. So that night we agreed on abortion. But deep down I wanted to keep my child but I thought I loved my boyfriend more and didn’t want to lose him. After having the abortion I broke up with him because I couldn’t look at him the same. Abortion isn’t just something you take lightly. It’s a life changing choice You and only you can make. I wake up days thinking of my child knowing I’ll never be able to hold my baby in my arms. Abortion is a horrible long term life choice. 

Girl who aborted at 16 still regrets it at 20

I was 16 when I got pregnant, my boyfriend wasn’t even really my boyfriend at the time, I went to the hospital for stomach pains and they told me I was pregnant. Did an ultrasound and everything being a hospital that didn’t support abortion. My mom cried and said you have to abort it, my ex said the same thing. My mom told me she would send me to a shelter for pregnant teens if I kept it. I remember driving there and arriving to protesters outside waving signs of dead baby fetuses. I did not want to do it, but I did. And it was the worst experience of my life, I could give anything even my own life to have had that baby, who would be about 3 and a half now, I am 20. 

Girl’s abortion pushed by her boyfriend and then he leaves

Dixie
I was 13 when I became pregnant. My boyfriend, at the age of 16, always pressured me into sex. I knew I wasn’t ready so I always said no. But one day I finally gave it up, and he broke up with me 2 weeks later. Then I had found out I was pregnant, I was really scared and I blamed him. I told him and he denied he was the father at first, but then he told me I had to get an abortion.
I had no idea what to do so I followed through with it. It was the biggest regret of my life. I could be almost 5 months pregnant right now waiting to see a beautiful face. Now, the ex, wont even speak to me, and he acts like I am not there and we were never anything. My stupid action takes hold of a beautiful baby now in heaven.

I hope my baby forgives me, along with God, and I’m hoping I can see his/her face when it’s my time.

R.I.P my beautiful baby<3

Teen’s abortion still haunts her after 10 years

Gretta

I was 17 when I had an abortion. I am 27 now and it is a decision that has haunted me for the last ten years. My mother was there to support me regardless of my decision. But the father was only 16 and his mother was pushing for me to abort. I regretted it from the time I left the procedure room. I went expecting to have to wait 24 hours and I came out feeling empty and very guilty for what I had just done. The pain doesn’t go away. It stays with you. Please reconsider if you are thinking of aborting your baby. You don’t realize how it will effect you the rest of your life.

Girl who aborted was pushed by her mother.

BettyI was 15 when I found out I was pregnant, I was soon to turn 16. I hid it from my mom for almost 2 months, then I broke down and told her. I cried and she told me I could either had an abortion, or keep it and go into hiding then give it up for adoption. I couldn’t stand the thought of being away from my friends for almost a year and not being able to keep the kid so I said I’d do the abortion. That monday I went to the clinic and had everything done. They took an untrasound and kept the picture of my almost fully 12 week old baby, but I told my self that this was for the best, that I was too young to have a child at 16. That was in Feb. of this year. Its now 9 months later and all I can do every night is cry. I killed my baby girl or boy. Yeah my life seems great after everything has been done, I have a new boyfriend who is great and my mom and me get along great, but I am so torn up inside. I regret it so much. Please don’t do it, it’s not worth crying the rest of your life.

Teen who aborted says “I thought I’d be OK, but I’m not.

Suzie
I am 17 years old and I just had an abortion 2 days ago. I was fine yesterday, then I woke up today and felt horrible. I feel like the worst person in the enitre world, I mean how could I have done that to my baby, my own flesh and blood. I feel like the guy that got my pregnant doesn’t feel like this, he’s not depressed or upset at all. I never thought I could feel so alone, i actually miss the feeling of a potential person living inside of me…I feel empty, like I have no purpose anymore. I can’t believe I did this, I will regret it for my entire life. Please think about how you will feel before you have an abortion. I thought I would be ok, but I’m not.

Teen who aborted regrets everything.

Dory
I’m 15 years old. & My boyfriend is 18 soon. He’s going off to college in the fall; so i broke down. All i could do was think of what my father would say. My little brother is 10 months, and I killed the living child in me 3 weeks ago. I can’t change what i did and i regret everything i had done. Nothing in this world can take back my baby of my first true love and myself. I killed my first baby; and honestly can’t deal with life. All i think to myself is I killed my own baby for my own convience. How could I do this?

Teens Facing Abortion Issues