I’m a 20 year old single mother of a 2 1/2 year old little boy. I became pregnant again, and the father of the baby gave me no input on what to do. He has one kid already and just had a baby with one of my friends. He told me he loved me and wanted to be with me. I went away for 2months and came back to find out he got my friend pregnant. I was then 2 months pregnant. He wasn’t helping me make a decision and I was not about to care for another child right
Last month I found out I was pregnant..
My boyfriend said i was crazy to even thinking of keeping my baby.
And my mom said it would ruin my life and that she wouldn’t help me if i kept it.
I was alone, I wanted to keep it for so many reasons.
I think I could have done it and been a great mother.
But I was pressured into getting an abortion.
I regret it so much.
I can’t describe the pain and guilt I feel.
I don’t know what else to say my feelings are too overwhelming.
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