I had an abortion when I was 16 years old. The reason I made this choice is because my boyfriend said he did not want the baby, so I felt like it was the right choice to make. I really REGRET it because I can’t have no more KIDS.
I was 18 when I got pregnant. I knew something was wrong when I started getting so sick I couldn’t walk, eat, ride in a car, anything. I was so scared to tell anyone so I kept it to myself. Finally one day I got so sick while my boyfriend was driving me around I told him, and he told my mom, and she made me take a pregnancy test at home without my boyfriend. She was calm at first, and didn’t say anything. I had no idea what to do. So my mom, boyfriend, and I made the decision that would make our lives easier. June 2nd didn’t just kill my baby, it killed me. To my baby I’m so sorry I’m a failure to you…I’m so sorry…I love you.
I am 16 years old and had an abortion a few months ago. My mom and aunt forced me into it. They got my boyfriend to make me have one too. The day I went to the clinic to get it done was the worst thing in my life. I lost a baby by killing a life that had not been born yet. When I see girls with babies it makes me think that could have been me holding my baby in my arms. I loved him even though I never met him. I just wish I could tell him that I am sorry.
I’m dating a 16-year-old who is perfect to me. March 3rd we found out that we were going to have a baby. At first he blamed it on me. Then he accepted responsibility. We discussed our options, and we were on totally different levels. I wanted adoption; he wanted abortion. I’m 15 and a freshman in high school. I did not any any of my parents or siblings to know. To keep my boyfriend I did abortion.
I’ll never forgive myself for what I have done. Its only been 5 days, and its been the hardest of my life. I woke up from the anesthetic hysterical. I haven’t been able to sleep, and I can’t even look at my stomach anymore, or even in the mirror. I miss the feeling. I’d rather have given my baby a chance at life. When I saw the ultrasound picture I was so happy. It made me smile so much. Reality then hit me. I knew i couldnt keep it. I knew in a few short hours it’d be gone. I hate myself. I did this for him, and now I wish I didn’t. This was my baby; I was supposed to protect it. This wasn’t right. I failed as a mother, and now I’m paying the price every day.
To my little one out there, somewhere, mommy loves you; and I’m so sorry for what I did to you. Please understand that I did not want this. You still mean the world to me. I love you.
I’m 14 years old and I had sex. Sometimes I feel like that’s not something I should be proud of, but I cant take that back. When I first told my boyfriend I was late and was pregnant, he just said our lives would be over and to just get an abortion. Then a few days later he left me and moved on to a new girl who was in my class. He was never there for me, and I was not raisng a child on my own. I REGRET IT. I feel like I murdered my mistake. i would do anything to take that back.
I was 15 when I aborted my baby. It ripped me in half to know I did that to an innocent child. I live a very upsetting life still now, but I will never forget him or her. I will always keep them dear to my heart.
I am currently 18. I became pregnant early in my relationship at 17. It was my senior year of high school and I would have had my child right after graduation. My boyfriend at the time who was six years older than me with a stable job told me that we where in no condition of having a child. It hurt me because he used to talk about how he wanted a child. When the abortion day came I didn’t want to follow through, but the only thing I could think about was how HE wanted the abortion. He wasn’t supportive. He never tried to comfort me. Instead he would try to shun me away. But please listen ladies, if you don’t want an abortion PLEASE DON’T DO IT. You are the one that has to live with his decision for the rest of your life. I am in a deep depression and have no one to relate to. I wish I could take it back.
I was sixteen when I got pregnant. It wasn’t our first time, but we knew we had to do something about it. I had known that I was pregnant no more than three hours before my parents. They decided that I needed an abortion. I ran away with the dad so we could talk about it, and I planned on coming back the next day. My parents didn’t see it that way, and when I was found the next morning I was still forced to have the abortion the next day. I regret it every day of my life. It is always on my mind. When they ask if it is forced, be sure to tell them yes. It haunts me everyday, and I know it will for the rest of my life. Make sure that it is what you want, and it’s what’s best for you.
I was only 15 years old, just turned 15 to be honest. I was going to the doctor for my regular check up and to see about getting on birth control. While sitting in the room with my doctor and mom I said I had missed my period. My doctor said that’s ok we have to give you a pregnancy test before giving you birthcontrol. As my doc came in she said I have good news and bad news. As she told me I was pregnant my mom and I broke down into tears. How could this be…I had only just turned 15. And to be honest I don’t even remember the good news.
Abortion had never crossed my mind, but little did I know my mom was planning it. One day after finding out I was pregnant and still in shock she told me I had an appointment with the clinic on Monday and not to tell any friends at school I was pregnant. I laid in bed all night holding my stomach and crying and saying baby trust mama no one will take your life. At the time I didn’t know what to do. I was so young, so I went along with what they wanted thinking I had no choice in anything because I was a minor. After the procedure I was so heart broken not knowing what to say or do and going through terrible depression.
Here I am almost two years later thinking wow my baby girl/boy would be two years old January 15th. Abortion was the hardest thing I have faced in my life and by far the worst decision ever made. Please think is 9 months of pain better than a lifetime of regret. I wish I had my family’s support on it rather than being pushed into it.
To my baby in heaven: You are my everything, my gardian angel, even though I don’t know you; and I will meet you one day.
I was 16 when I got pregnant, and it was a real shock. My boyfriend at the time wanted to get married and texted my mom that I was pregnant. She gave me the tests every, week and they all were negative. Then one day it was positive. My mom told me I was either having an abortion or she was sending the guy to jail because he was older than me. Everyday I regret not sticking up for myself and keeping my kid. It would have been hard but I could have raised my baby. I wish I could change my decision.