I just recently had an abortion. As I am writing this it’s barely been a week since the abortion. I found out i was pregnant at 5 weeks. My first thought was to have an abortion and so did my bf because we knew we weren’t ready. But soon my thoughts started to change and I wanted to keep it. My bf wasn’t supportive with the idea so I felt I had no choice but not to have it. I wanted to tell my mom but I was afraid she wouldn’t agree with me and also my bf started to be dumb with me telling me he didn’t want me to have it, so I thought I had no choice and had an abortion. I feel like I should have told my mom and maybe things would have been different. I am beginning to regret having the abortion. I’ve been crying everyday because before I had the choice and now I don’t.
I was 17 when I got pregnant. At first, I was excited. But then I started getting scared. And I was scared to tell my mom. And I thought the only way to make her not hate me was to tell her I wanted an abortion. Feb 10th we drove 2 hours to the abortion clinic. It was the most painful thing I have ever gone through. Afterwards, I felt better though minus the pain. However, a few days later it started to sink in. I was so selfish. I want my baby so bad. And now today is Janunary 23rd. it’s been almost 1 year since I aborted my baby. Not a day goes by when I don’t regret it.
* I’m so sorry baby. I love you so much. I know you are in heaven looking down, just please forgive me. Someday you will be back in my arms. I love you…
I found out I was pregnant 2 days before my 17th birthday. I was happy and excited, but also scared. At first my boyfriend was too. He would sit up all night and talk about names and that he wanted a boy. When my boyfriend told his guardians they convinced him that he didn’t want a child and that he should make me get an abortion. My mom was 100% supportive for whatever i was going to choose. She was a teen mom too. I told him that i was going to keep the baby and if he wanted to leave that was all up to him, but he told me over and over that he loved me and didn’t want to lose me. I was only 17, and I have never had to make a decision like this in my entire life. So i finally agreed to the abortion. I cried every day up to the operation. I was only 6 weeks pregnant when it happened. But to me that was my baby, and i was killing him.
I still think about it everyday. After the abortion my boyfriend started getting angry a lot. When I would bring it up he would tell me it’s over and to stop talking about it. I eventually broke up with him, and I’ve been in therapy ever since January 28, 2009.
I’m 18, almost 19. I was scared when I looked at my pregnancy test and it said positive. Fear raced through my body faster than my blood flow.. And because I was scared I took my baby out of the world. I never gave him/her a chance. All I can ever think of now is what they would have become. Doctor? Teacher? Dancer? But now I won’t know, because I got scared.
I think about my baby every night before I go to bed, and I almost always cry. I’m sorry I wasn’t strong enough for my baby, he/she needed me. Now everytime I look or think about the father, I get angry. I’m mad that he encouraged me to do that to our baby. If you are thinking of abortion, really think. Once you do it, you can’t take it back. Your baby will be gone forever, and never get the chance they deserve. I’m sorry baby, I love you.
I was feeling weird all the time and I never payed attention to my period, so I thought I was fine and that I was just a little sick. When the doctor came in the room I told her how I was feeling, and she wanted to do a test. When she came back in the room and told me I was pregnant I started to cry, and my mom just looked at me. After my Grandma told me that I couldn’t have the baby because I was only 16. I sat in the dark and cried. I cried every night until it was time for my appointment. At the appointment I was scared and nervous.
After it all went down I felt really down , I didn’t tell my boyfriend until after so he wouldn’t make me feel bad about it, but he made it worse. He broke up with me because, “I Killed our child and broke his heart.” I Regret every second of that day, and I now have to deal with that for the rest of my life.
I got pregnant at 15 years old. My boyfriend and I were having sex just about everytime we saw each other. We also had unprotective about six times - we used the pull out rule. Well we had sex and we used a condom but we there so into it that we didn’t know the condom wasn’t on. He had asked me to have his baby b4 but I wasnt ready. The day I told him that I was pregnant was the day that he told me that he was starting to talk to another girl. I was about 7 wks and it is like he didn’t even care. He was my first and only so it wasn’t any other guy’s baby. He and his family are against having abortions, but since he didn’t care I had one anyway. My mother doesnt know about it but his does. We broke up and we haven’t talked at all and we’re 16 now. His mom and I stay in contact.
I wish I would have kept my baby bcuz now everyday I feel bad and think about her. Even through daddy didn’t care mommy loves you and always will. <3 =’(
I became pregnant when I was 15, and against my boyfriend’s and his family’s wishes I aborted my baby. His family still hasn’t forgiven me 6 years later. I don’t blame them. I still haven’t forgiven myself. I still cry from time to time and look back and wonder what if?
If you are pregnant and can’t afford a baby, don’t abort it. It is the hardest thing you could ever do. It will tear you up for the rest of your life. I really wish that I could go back to that day and take it all back. I would have a 6-year- old child whom I would love deeply.
I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant. I had taken two tests at once, and one said positive, one said negative. I told the father of the baby, who was 20, that I was pregnant. He looked at me and said, “You look like you have something you need to get rid of, don’t you?” I didn’t know what to do because in my mind abortion was horrible. Then I talked to my mother and she convinced me that abortion was the right thing to do because I would’ve been raising the child on my own and the father told me he would have nothing to do with his own baby’s life.
It’s been 3 months since I’ve gotten it done and by far the biggest regret I have ever had in my life so far. I can never forgive myself for doing that, knowing I would be a wonderful mom. It was very selfish and the wost feeling ever.
I was 19 when I found out I was pregnant. I was 3 months and a day. I wanted to keep it so bad, but my mom and my baby’s dad thought I shouldn’t. I went in on Nov. 3, 2011, and had it done. I was scared and even got sick on my way there. Well I had it, and I have felt bad ever since. I knew I could do it, but I just had the abortion.
Just know young girls or older, if you believe you can do it then don’t have an abortion. It’s not worth the tears and the pain. I miss my baby and wish I could have just had a chance to hold you. I’m sorry.
To start off I’m 17, and I had the abortion on November 8, 2011. I found out for sure i was pregnant October 2, 2011. I was 12 weeks. I have to say it is the worst decision I have ever had to make on my own. The guy I was dating just wasn’t supportive and left the state a couple weeks after I told him. I really wish I would have had more support from him. I wish i had kept my baby. I regret this every day I wake up. I can’t seem to get it out of my head. It’s a really hard thing to go through alone. The day I went into the clinic I had second thoughts. I knew i didn’t want to do it, but I felt it was too late because I was already there, and I felt he and my mother would have been mad at me, so I went through with it. After they where done it hit me. I realized what I did, and the feeling was horrible. To those who are thinking of abortion, please think hard. Read stories about it. Think of the other options you have. I wish I would have looked further into adoption before I made my decision. Now I can’t even look at baby items or pregnant woman without crying ………..
I’M SORRY FOR WHAT I’VE DONE. I HOPE YOU WILL FORGIVE ME. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU , AND EVERY MAY 28 I WILL DO SOMETHING TO REMEMBER YOU. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU ZINGA. REST IN PEACE ANGEL OF MINE <3
