Teen Abortion Issues

I was 19 when I got pregnant My boyfriend and I were ecstatic, but we still had to tell our parents. My mom was mad, of course; but she supported us. His parents were very disappointed but also surported us.

Two days later we found out that our baby had no chance of life since I had been using pills for my problem skin. It affected my baby’s growth, and therefore the baby would die straight after birth. The doctors and everyone else thought it was the best to have an abortion. I was 6 weeks pregnant then.

I had the abortion 3 days after I found out I was pregnant,and I regret it every day of my life. I should have done more research before I made the permanent decision of abortion. I now know that my baby had a chance to live if only I had given it to her. I shouldn’t have made a hasty decision, but now it’s too late.

My boyfriend and I are married now and plan to have lots more babies, but I sure wish that I had been more careful then and I would not have had to go through that horrible experience of killing my baby.

So please, if you are expecting, don’t let anyone decide for you; and take your time before you make any decision. Do lots of research and make sure it’s what you want!

I was 18 years old when I got my abortion. I thought I was sure about the situation because I already had a two-year-old son, and it was my last year in school. The guy I was with and I were going through some issues. He was too much in the streets and wasn’t that much into his his first son, so I used to tell him I was going to get rid of it because he wasn’t around that often.

Then he got locked up, and I got the abortion March 13, 2009. I will never forget that day and the ultrasound I saw. Thinking about it, I didn’t really need him around to take care of my baby. That’s going to be his fault to miss out on a beautil thing called life. To my baby… Mommy’s so sorry to put your life on the line for someone’s presence in my life… never again.

I first got pregnant when I was only 13. The boy was the love of my life, and I still am with him and love him to this day. I got an abortion on November 21, 2007; and I will never forget that day. Now I’m 9 months pregnant with a boy, and I’m so happy, and I wish I could have kept my first.

I was 16 when I decided to kill my own baby. He/she was 10 weeks and I was real scared, didn’t know what to do. My “boyfriend” denied his own baby. A week passed and I made the decision that I wasn’t prepared to be a mother. A friend of mine took me to a clinic where they took me t0 a room. On my way to the room I was crying because I really wanted my baby, but I was alone and I didn’t have the help or support of anyone.

The doctor put me in the positon and he only said. “Ok, I’m going to take out the blob of tissue.” I’m now 19 and I still feel that pain inside me that kills me when I see a child running around because I killed my own baby. I didn’t know he already had a heart and it was beating inside me. I didn’t know anything about a fetus, about how it developes. Girls, if you are pregnant. don’t abort. If you feel that you don’t have anyone that supports you, you do. His name is GOD.

The pain and regret of doing it will burn you inside as an unstoppable fire. I found out too late. Now I just can’t go back in time. Now I’m suffering from depression and I have been in rehab for almost 3 months because I had suicidal actions because it wasn’t fair for me to live when I had killed an innocent one that couldn’t defend himself. What kind of person  am I??

I wasn’t even 15 yet, I was still a kid! Me and the guy that was my boyfriend at the time decided to have unprotected sex! Wasn’t the best choice I’ve made. Seven weeks later we went to a clinic where they told me I was pregnant, seven weeks and three days pregnant. I was so scared I didn’t know what to do. I freaked out about the whole thing and let days and months go by. My boyfriend did want to keep his baby, our baby. But I just couldn’t. I knew it would ruin our relationship cause I loved him so much! We were too young.

I told him abortion would be an easy way out and this nightmare would go away. But I thought wrong, real wrong. It was May 30th, a Saturday, when I aborted my baby. I remember everything that happened, I’ll never forget. As I walked in the room of the clinic I felt scared and alone. My boyfriend waited outside and told me it’ll all be ok. Well, as everything happened I thought everything would be ok.

But now it’s been three months and I regret it ever day. Me and my boyfriend broke up, we just couldn’t stand each other anymore; and everytime I see a pregnant girl I ask myself, “What could have been if i kept my baby?” It’s not the best feeling having this guilt inside you each and every day. I wish this pain would go away but it never does, and it never will go away. I killed my baby and I’m so sorry.

I’m 16 years old and my boyfriend is 18. We’ve been dating only 4 months but were high school sweethearts and we’ve promised each other to be together forever. In July we went to Disneyland and while we were there my gma passed away back in our hometown. His mom didn’t let him go to the funeral. My cousins came but got me sick. I was sick for weeks, so a month later in August when I got sick again we didnt think anything of it. After two weeks and my mom being worried about my depression she took me to the doctor. They told me I was pregnant. My mom is not a supportive person and my dad the day before had been in a motorcycle accident paralyzing him on his left side. He’s still in the hospitail as I write this. 

I was upset and immediatly wanted an abortion. Me and my bf had always been very careful and agreed if I ever got pregnant we’d abort. So a week ago today I went and took the medical pill. Friday last week I took the four pills that make you go basically into labor. I started throwing up and I felt the tissue come out. I looked in my underwear and there was my baby fetus looking at me with one eye. It was horrible. We were happy the worst was over but were worried about what else would happen.

Monday I went back to school lying to everyone saying I had a ruptured ovarian cyst. I now regret it greatly and wish I had my baby. But my bf on the other hand is happy we did what we did. He’s only sad about putting me through so much. He says it was best for us and the baby. His family doesn’t know and never will know cuz they would kick him out. He promises to pay my mom back all the money it cost to have the abortion. But my mom still hasn’t let me see him and I really need him. 

I never thought I would regret it but now I regret more than anything. He’s trying his best to help me through it but I just wish he would care a little that it was his child to. But he says he just doesn’t care and that one day when were married and ready we’ll have a baby. But for me it will never be made ok that simply. We will never have another first child. That was our only one. Not a day will go by that I won’t tell that child how sorry I am. I just wish my bf would tell our baby that he loves it and what we did was the best for all three of us. I know right now I wouldn’t want to have my child here. The way we live is not even close to how I want my child to live, but not even the comfort in that is enough to make it ok. Our child has torn us further apart and at the same time even closer. But I will never forget looking at my dead child and saying I’m so sorry while crying my eyes out.

I was 15 when I became pregnant. I was scared to death but had my mind set that I was GOING TO HAVE MY BABY. Later I realized I had to tell my parents, thinking I would have their support through it all.

I was completely wrong. They both wanted me to abort my baby. I let them know I didn’t want to do this and that my boyfriend’s family would support us. They threatened for us to move away if I were to have the baby because they couldn’t stand the thought of their friends seeing me pregnant. They tormented me with everything possible. “You are too young, you don’t have our support, you have no money, we’ll move, everyone will think you’re a whore, your boyfriend will leave you, you’ll be stuck a single mother.” Everything they could possibly think of, they told me. I stuck to my decision of having the baby for 2 months till finally I couldn’t take the pressure from my parents. I got sick of hearing all these things day after day. I just couldn’t handle it, so I finally gave in.

June 19, 2009, the most horrible day of my life. I went in for the abortion trying to ignore the pain, trying to pretend it wasn’t really happening. Then they called me in, and as I laid there crying the nurse tried to tell me everything would be ok, but I knew deep down it wouldn’t be. I woke up a little while later thinking to myself, “What have I done?” I couldn’t handle the pain. I still can’t to this day. Every time I see a baby or a pregnant girl I break down. I now suffer from depression and I still haven’t forgiven myself for what I did. I killed my own baby and that pain will never go away.

I shouldn’t have given in, I had other options, other people to support me.

December 3, 2007, is the day I made a big mistake. I found out I was pregnant on November 14th and was in utter shock. I couldn’t believe this was happening to me. My boyfriend and I had been together for two years already, but my parents did not like him, so we kept our relationship a secret. When I told my mom I was pregnant, I could see in her eyes the disappointment. She wished I would have told her I was sexually active, but I was too scared.

I had an appointment in November to get the abortion, but on our way there I decided that I couldn’t go through with it and that I wanted to keep the baby and also think more about an abortion. I looked online and couldn’t bear to go through with it. But seeing my mom and dad cry and tell me they want me to do it because it was best for me, convinced me that I had to do it for my parents.

But I was wrong…I did the pill form of abortion. I was four weeks along, and I still remember that ultra sound picture. I think about what I did every day, and it kills me to know that I could be a mother right now. Yes, it would be a hard task; but I should never  have gone through with the abortion. It caused me and my boyfriend of two years to break up, and it haunts me every day. Please don’t let anyone pressure you into it. Do anything to stop yourself from falling into getting an abortion. Having a child is hard, but the decision to abort haunts your life.

I was 18 when I had my abortion. I was 8 weeks and 2 days in my pregnancy. At the time my boyfriend and I thought it was the best thing to do at the time. After I had the abortion I thought it didn’t hurt me and it didn’t matter, but it did.

A few weeks afterwards my best friend told me that she was a month pregnant and that she was keeping it. What she said next just crushed me. She said, “If you haven’t had the abortion we could be pregnant together.” A month after I saw a girl my age, maybe younger, pregnant; and I just started crying.

Months after I had it I was sent to a mental hospital for depression and suicide attempts. I was so far gone in the depression I didn’t even know that I was there. My doctor asked me when did the suicidal thoughts first start, and at first I didn’t know. Then it hit me… after I had the abortion. They told me that the change in the hormone shift sent me into bipolar disorder.

I was one of those girls who thought that it was just a sack of cells and it didn’t matter, but the more I saw other girls who were pregnant it just made me think, “What did I do? How could I do that? How could I kill my unborn child?”

Till this day it still hurts me. Now that I’m six months pregnant with my second child it still hurts me. You think that having an abortion doesn’t hurt you, but it does. It’s final and you can’t take it back. There are other options in life.

I was 14 yrs old when I got pregnant. I was physically and mentally abused through it, and the father obviously did not care, so I did the only thing I knew I could do. I aborted on Nov. 5, 2004, at 10:35 am. It was hard for me for the first few years, but know I have learned to accept the decision I made. Not only could I not take care of the child, but I was also pregnant by an 18 yr old when I was just a child, so I was not ready to bring another child into the world when I alone was one. Now I still think about my child. It does hurt but not as bad anymore.

Just think about what your decision should be. Don’t abort if it is something you doubt because if you doubt then there is no need to throw something that precious away.