Teen Abortion Issues

The first time we had sex was completely accidental, but it was so good we couldn’t stop. We were great friends, so nobody knew or suspected a thing. It’s still a secret to this day, and so is my pregnancy. My body started changing, and I just thought my period was coming. To my surprise it didn’t. I took a test and didn’t get the answer I was looking for. I told him and we agreed abortion would be best. The situation had to be kept secret. We couldn’t risk exposure of the situation.

I got on that table, and I cried so hard. That’s when I noticed I wanted my baby. It was too late then. It was already gone. Now the bond between one of my closest friends has been severed, and I’m a statistic. My abortion didn’t go well. I had complications before my follow-up exam. I’m still taking the medication they prescribed. I’m still comtemplating whether I want to take birth control. I was an advocate against birth control and abortion, and in the blink of an eye all of that changed. I still have nightmares about March 9th 2010. I just hope my baby forgives me.

It has been 8 months since I had my abortion. I knew I was pregnant, but I denied it up to my 12th week. I was scared to tell my mom or friends because I didn’t want to be called a whore or other names. The boy who got me pregnant wasn’t a boy that I was with. He forced me to have sex with him, and he popped me off on purpose. I don’t believe in aborting a child because I wouldn’t have wanted my mother to have aborted me.

I am sorry for what I have done, and I pray to God that he could forgive me. I cry just thinking about the whole procedure, and when people talk about ther babies I feel uncomfortable. I often wonder how my life would be if I was to keep the baby. I know that it would’ve been hard because I am only 16, and i would’ve had the baby before my 17th birthday. I know what I did was wrong, and I do regret it, but it was something I had to do. I’m truly sorry for myself and my unborn child.

I was 15 when I found out I was pregnant. It didn’t really hit me until my stomach started hardening. I told my mom and she immedietly thought that abortion would be the best choice. My boyfriend and I were both terrified. We went into the clinic and I was so scared. They showed me in the sonogram of what my baby looked like, and I started crying because it looked so perfect and healthy.

I went through with my abortion, but regret it every single day. I want my baby back…and I’m so sorry for what I did.

I was 16 years old when I had my abortion because my mom forced me. I didn’t know I was pregnant until my mom forced me to take a pregnacy test, and it came out postitive. Me and my boyfriend were really upset and worried because I knew that my mom was going to kick me out of my house. I was so scared.

I had an abortion, and every day of my life that goes on I regret it because I think about it and what it could have been.

I found out I was pregnant march 4th. Being 17 I should have been scared. I sat there in my car with my boyfriend looking at my positive test. The worst part was that it wasn’t his. I should have been freaking out, but I wasn’t. I then called my best friend and informed him that he had knocked me up. Oh joy! I can’t say I was happy, but I knew I could do it. I’m young, but I’m smart.

A few days later I told my mother and father. He told his. I wanted to keep my baby, but my mother forced me into abortion. I had no place to turn, no one to help me, and I felt so alone. My mom told me if I didn’t she wouldn’t let me in her house and she would never think of me as her daughter.

After the abortion I felt so bad. I know that I can’t live with myself any more, and my mother can’t see that she has hurt me beyond repair. I wish I could move past this, but I know it’s only a matter of time before it makes me fall apart.

I was 16 years old when I had my first baby. It was the happiest time of my life. I would do anything for her. I just turned 18 and found out that I was pregnant again. I was so scared to disappoint everyone again. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 3 years, and I were too scared to tell our parents, but I needed my mom, so I told her. My boyfriend and I decided to get an abortion, and I went into the clinic and made an appoitment.

I didn’t want to do it. I knew how much I loved my daughter, and I knew I would love this baby just as much, but I needed to focus on the baby I already had and try to make a better life for her. I lost my baby on March 22, 2010. I’ll never forget what I did and I’ll never forgive myself for doing it. I’m stuck with a lifetime full of regrets. I’d do anything to take it back, but now it’s too late. I was selfish. I love both of my babies. I hope you forgive me, my little angel. Mommy will always love you.

I was 16 years old when I found out I was pregnant. I was 7 weeks. My boyfriend  and I had been together for a year and were pretty sure we loved each other. Then when I showed him my pregnancy test he dropped, and I cried. We wanted to keep it, but then my mom found out and then my dad. They both expected me to get an abortion. 

At first that was not even an option for me, but my mom talked me and my boyfriend into it. She was telling us the bad things about rasing a child, and it scared me. I wanted my baby more than anything, but my mom convinced my boyfriend that it was for the best, so i did it.

It’s been 9 months since, and every day I blame myself and regret everything. All I want is my baby. So for the teens out there that go through this..if you have a single doubt that you don’t want to have an abortion…don’t do it. I wish someone would have told me that. I would be a mother to a one-month-old baby right now.

When I found out I was pregnant I was 16, and my boyfriend was 19. First thing I did was phone my boyfriend. We hadn’t been together long - 3months; but I loved him. He told me the best thing for both of us would be to have an abortion. He told me how I would be wrecking my life and that he’s only thinking of me. He put a lot of pressure on me to abort, something I promised myself I would never do. A week later we broke up. He told me he loved me and we could get back together and start again if I got an abortion. He said that if I kept it I’d be choosing a cell over him. I told my sister because I really didn’t know what to do. She told me that she would support me no matter what my choice was. This was also the response from my mum. My ex’s family wanted me to keep it, but I booked the appointment to abort it because I loved him so much and wanted him back.

But luckily before I went through with it I told myself that he wasn’t worth it if he was going to make me choose, and he obviously didn’t love me. I am now 9 weeks pregnant, and I am really excited to become a mum!

If anyone tries to force you into abortion, don’t listen! It’s your body and your baby. Don’t let anyone take that away from you. It’s YOUR choice.

I’m almost 18, and a month ago I aborted…and might I say it was the harded thing I’ve ever had to do and hardest thing I’ve ever been through. I admit I just thought it was going to be over and never think about it again. Boy was I wrong. Everyday I sit and replay that day back in my mind, and the killer thing about it is that no one knows but my boyfriend, and he deals with things so much better than I do. He never thinks about it.

I remember when I told him he was upset at first. Then he came around, and he would kiss my stomach and everything. But then reality set it. It wasn’t one either of us wanted to face, but the fact is I’m not healthy enough to have a baby. I’m diabetic and its bad, and I’m not done with school yet, and I don’t have a job, and he’s in college and works but it’s not possible for us. It hurts that I had to, but it was something I had to do to. It was a life- changing experience and one I’ll never forget.

I was 16 years old when I found out I was pregnant. The first thing I did was tell my mom and dad. Then I told the “dad” who happend to be my boyfriend of almost a year. We sat and talked about it for awhile when we both decided we were nowhere near ready to be parents. My parents were very helpful and told me it was whatever I wanted, that they would help me no matter what. But why keep it when I am so young and the “dad” doesn’t want it. So I called and made the appointment and had it done.

It was the hardest desicion I ever had to make and not a day goes by that I don’t sit there and wonder what it would have been like if I kept my baby, like whether it would have been a boy or girl or what it would be like now that I’m 18 and my baby would be about 7 months old if I had kept it. I think about it everyday and sometimes regret what I did.