I was 14 (that was 2 years ago) when I had my abortion, So young, The father of my child was 20, we didn’t have a relationship at all. Except we’d talked before a few times, but we hooked up one night and a month and a half later I found out I was pregnant. When I told him he was just as shocked as I was, we decided that we were both to young to have a child and he said he had the money for the abortion so I agreed.
It seemed like a simple way to fix the problem and even though I didn’t really want to do it I didn’t want to be a mom or be pregnant either so I just did it.
The morning after the abortion I remember waking up in tears because I dreamed about a little baby crying at the top of his lungs saying “why mom???” Since that day I haven’t been the same. Something in me died when my baby did. Now I’d give anything to take that decision back. GIRLS: Don’t do it, if you feel like you’re not ready to be a mom yet then give the child up for adoption. The least you can do for your child is carry it for 9 months.